Interview with Chrisinda

• How long have you been working as an escort?
  
  It has been just over a year since I started. I worked for an agency at that time.
   
  
  
• When and how did you become an escort? What motivated you to start doing it? What was your background before this work?
  
  I was working as a professional in an office setting. I had a 'good' job. I was frustrated by the fact that I worked so hard and did not have any time or energy for myself, friends and family.
   
  
  
• Do you like being an escort? What do you enjoy most in it? What is important and have value for you in it?
  
  Yes I do, and for more than one reason. I have skills in, and enjoy very much, making people feel good. I also believe that I help some to feel comfortable with themselves. I feel it is important to try to share positive energies with people I meet. (Oh, yeah, I am a geek ;) )
   
  
  
• What don't you like about being an escort?
  
  I wish that more people would realize that what I do has value.
  
  It is vital for humans to have human contact. It keeps us human.
  
  I'm not a hustler, I don't hurt people, I make people feel good... that has value :)
   
  
  
• What makes you notable among other providers? What exactly, you believe, you're good at? What makes your service unique? What is your favorite kind of service?
  
  Many of us are attractive, so that is not it. Many of us are intelligent, so that is not it... I think my most notable quality is that I am able to put myself into a place where my client REALLY IS the most important thing in my life for the moment. I am not afraid to admit that I really enjoy the company of my regular clients.
  
  I'm very VERY good at physical sensation, as well... ;)
  
  I like any kind of service where I feel that I have left my client feeling good physically and mentally. I get off on making others feel good.
   
  
  
• How do you prefer a client to make an appointment? What information is important for you? Is screening required before the appointment?
  
  I like emails best, but I have a phone, lol. I ask for more information from some that others. This is my right. I have intuition that is sometimes wrong... but usually not.
  
   
  
  
• What types of clients you deny to meet? Are there any restrictions?
  
  I will not meet up with people who are rude. I treat people with respect. I demand the same.
  
  Two consenting adults can always keep the other informed about what they like or don't like. I don't do anal... but I can't say it's never happened, lol. I have done things that I don't normally do, if I FEEL LIKE IT. I NEVER do anything I don't want to do.
   
  
  
• Do you have regular client assignments? How do you choose whom you wish to see on this basis?
  
  That is a mutual thing. We either want to see each other again, or we do not. It is simple.
   
  
  
• When you visit a client, what kind of environment do you expect a client to provide?
  
  Cleanliness. I don't care if it is a bachelor pad or a mansion.
  
  I don't mind a mess: I don't like something that looks like it is teeming with bacteria!
   
  
  
• Do you have any particular requirements regarding hygiene? What are the guidelines that your client should follow?
  
  Of course any idiot would realize that you should shower and brush your teeth everyday.
  
  Sometimes people need to shower before or use some mouthwash when they haven't had a chance to head home. That is no big deal, I have a shower and mouthwash... and if it is wanted, I can even shampoo hair and soap someone down...
  
  Actually, sometimes I LOVE when my clients need a shower!
  
   
  
  
• Describe your common HIV/STD prevention procedures. What kind of tests and how often do you pass? Are the test results available upon request?
  
  I have passed all but: one bacterial infection.
  
  You know who you are: "I FREAKEN TOLD YOU THAT THAT WOULD GIVE ME AN INFECTION, YOU JERK!!!"
  
  I had chlamydia a few years ago... but that had nothing to do with this... stray boyfriend.
   
  
  
• What are your rates?
  
  - 250/hr +200 each add. hour
  - 150/.5 hr
  - 1500 overnight
  - 2500 full day
  - 1500 each add. day
  - Cancel over 3 hours in advance: NO cancel fee
  - Cancel under 3 hours in advance: $30 added to next appt
  - Cancel at appt: $50 at appt
  Cancel rates are negotiable by both parties, with a minimum of $20
   
  
  
• Are there additional charges for "extras"? If so, what are these?
  
  No. I charge for my time. Flat fees.
  
  Can't say I haven't changed policies for more cash, though... that would be a lie, lol.
   
  
  
• What payment options are available? How would you prefer the client to pay?
  
  Ca$h, Baby. I will have alternate methods of payment soon.
  
  I would be perfectly happy with real gold coins... :D
  
  (Anniversary of the Dominion of Canada)
   
  
  
• How would you prefer the money to be given? Please describe step-by-step payment procedure. What guidelines should a client follow to make the payment convenient and risk-free for you.
  
  Respectfully. Most people are quite good about it. I don't say, "Hey, I want 75 for a handjob another 50 for cbj, and another 100 for full service". I charge for my time: straightforward. I can receive my cash by hand, or envelope. On a table or right to me is fine.
  
  The only people that have to worry about cash changing hands are those who charge for sexual services. I don't charge for services. I charge for my time.
   
  
  
• If you accept credit or debit cards, how will charges appear on a credit card statement?
  
  
  Will keep you posted!
   
  
  
• If a client decided to make you a present, what would you be happy to receive? What is your wish-list (maybe flowers, lingerie, parfume, music albums, books etc.)?
  
  - Dark chocolate
  - Live plants
  - Art
  - Loungerie
  - Gift cards
  - Dutch Mocha Coffee (or strong dark coffee: one sugar, no cream)
  - White wine
  - Books: fiction or non-fiction (humourous, historical, philosophical, crime, theory)
  - Music, either bought or made (love music: classical, old blues, old and new rock, metal... anything from Tchaikovsky to the White Stripes)
  - Crown Royal
  - Linens
  - Treats are great! Presents are lovely! I am happy to receive any of these or things I haven't thought of!
   
  
  
• Do you travel? If so, what does that involve on the client's part?
  
  Rarely. It's hardly ever worth it.
   
  
  
• Do you allow kisses?
  
  I love kisses. They are such a great way to connect!
  
  I have refused/avoided, and it often does not come up, but I do kiss when it seems like a good idea :)
   
  
  
• If a client wants, will you engage in a role play? What kind of?
  
  I will engage in almost any type of role-play. Lots of time it is someone in authority who seduces / faux-forces the other into acts they 'would never' do otherwise ;)
  
  
   
  
  
• How do you handle a situation where a client may want to get "wild and crazy"?
  
  
  Depends... maybe it is my favorite type of 'wild and crazy'!
  
  Most people have no idea how normal their 'wild and crazy' really is! If I am not interested, we can often compromise.
   
  
  
• How do you handle first-timers or those who have limited experience with escort services? What are your suggestions to such clients to make your encounter the most enjoyable?
  
  Their encounter will be enjoyable no matter what.
  
  I usually just tell them to make up their mind how they feel after they look me in the eyes. I am kind, so people can tell this, and it puts them at ease.
   
  
  
• Have you ever had experiences with disabled clients? How do you meet their special needs?
  
  Of course! We can always figure things out. Every human is different, so every person is treated differently, anyway. My new place has an elevator, so for some this is easier.
   
  
  
• What are your feelings about and attitude to participating as an escort in group parties, where several escorts serve several clients?
  
  
  If the group where good, fun-loving people, I'm sure it would be great. If not... then I suppose I would do the obvious and give them some cash back and leave.
   
  
  
• What is your attitude towards tobacco, alcohol and drugs? Do you drink or smoke yourself? Do you allow the client to do it during your meeting?
  
  I don't smoke tobacco, but I did until last July. Smoke does not bother me. Mild intoxication does not bother me. I want my clients relaxed, comfortable, and in control of their mind. They can drink or smoke around me, no problem at all.
   
  
  
• What are the most usual types of "difficult" clients you meet? What would you like to warn them about in advance?
  
  CLIENT: '150-250, isn't that a lot? Wow, I could go to Quebec/Las Vegas/wherever and get an hour or two for that!'
  
  ME: 'I think you should visit Quebec/Las Vegas/wherever and have a great day, bye!' or 'Hey, I don't hustle you, don't try to hustle me, either.' or 'You get what you pay for, sweetie!'
  
  I may be more quality than some care to pay for. The streets are full of people who will spend 5 minutes with you for 50 dollars... and you will probably live through it! It may cost more when they rob you or blackmail you, however...
   
  
  
• What would happen, if at some point you or the client wished to stop the proceedings? How would you handle the issue of compensation?
  
  It would depend on how much time has passed. We would discuss it and come up with something fair to both of us. This happens. Sometimes a phone call comes, and my client must leave. Sometimes a full cancel and re-arrange, which is a cancel fee. Sometimes a smaller rate. Sometimes they tell me to keep it!
   
  
  
• What are the things that excite you or appeal to you when on a "date"? What turns you on?
  
  I am turned on by the interest of another. That is why I dress nice, why I act sexy, use eye contact... that is what works.
  Touch is good.
   
  
  
• What are your sexual preferences? What kinds of activity do you enjoy most of all?
  
  I hate 'favorite' questions... takes away from other choices! What I am doing at the time is my 'favorite'!
  
   
  
  
• What are your turn-offs?
  
  Rudeness. Lack of respect. Steadfast ignorance.
   
  
  
• What was your most funny sexual experience?
  
  Sex can be pretty funny... I have laughed a lot :)
   
  
  
• What was your most funny escorting experience?
  
  Hmmm.... my clients and I have shared a lot of laughs, but I don't remember enough details to tell proper stories.
   
  
  
• What was your most odd or weird escorting experience?
  
  When I thought I heard someone ask me, "Can I put you in a pit?". I do not see him anymore... He swears this is not true, but I know he has at least one dungeon... and not all of them are the fun kind! This is not a statement against dungeons, lol - some of the sweetest people I know play in them.
   
  
  
• Hypothetical situation: your best friend, or your sister, or your daughter tells you that she wants to get into escort business. Would you encourage her to do it?
  
  I encourage no-one. I tell no-one ever what they should or should not do. I would ask why. I would ask what they think it is like. I would ask them how they think they would feel during. I ask how they think they will feel later in life when asked about it. I would answer questions.
  
  If it seemed that they were going to do it no matter what I said, then I would give them the benefit of my experience and do all I could to keep them from getting hurt or ripped off. It's not a bad way to make a living, but most people in this industry do not have a sense of balance, and I watch this hurt them. I could not encourage anyone to live like that.
  
  For those that can handle it, then go and make yourself proud.
   
  
  
• If someone wished to become an escort, how would you recommend they go about it?
  
  Depends on the person. Less mature people must work for an agency. More mature people should decide if an agency or independence is best for them. Find someone you admire. Talk to them. There are no set ways to go about it, so each person makes their own way. I know some who work in the streets. I don't ever recommend this, but if you are that desperate, then please be smart enough to have someone taking license numbers!
   
  
  
• What are your hobbies and passions, things you love to do and discuss? Music genres, movies, reading preferences etc.? What other talents do you have?
  
  I love to listen to music, to write songs. I love to read. I love board and card games. I love most games and sports, actually. My skill level varies.... lol.
  My favorite times are often sitting with people I care about laughing and theorizing.
   
  
  
• What are your dreams, future goals and aspirations? Short and long term?
  
  I am working on a web-site that is mostly behind the scenes... if you go to it now, it is just a page I threw on so it wouldn't be completely blank, lol.
  I have several goals. Some are for the next 6 months, and the longest term ones are for around 10 years from now. I will never 'retire' from all work. The very least: I shall have the financial stability to end my years as a professional student!
  If I win the lottery, this is what I shall do: learn and write... maybe have a call-in tv show :D
   
  
  
• Anything else to add?
  
  If you feel bad about what you are doing, then you are doing something wrong. Change it.
  
  Respect others, and for goodness sake, respect yourself!!!
   
  
  

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