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That's right Stacey.
Sugardaddies are still men! The arrangement never goes as planned, especially if they're married. Then you become the "wife" all of a sudden. Instead of them respecting that you're single, and because of that they are, in turn, replaceable, they are most time very controlling.
My friend is in a relationship where she is unhappy with a married man. He has bought two vehicles (car and truck) and gives her just enough to pay her bills. If she had an incidental problem with the car, or she needed something for the kids, she damn near had an anurism yelling at him about it. He wouldn't help her unless she was jobless, When she told him that she wasn't happy and that she didn't want to be with him, he told her that she couldn't break up with him until HE was tired; he said he had too much 'invested' in her.
Me? I shut them down before they start. I have had nice relationships with my sugardaddies, but I maintain my day job so everything they do for me is candy, and because I'm bossy, highly independent, and I don't need them to live anyway, I tell them to kiss my ass when they feel they need to tell me what to do. In my honest opinion, I have yet to meet a man with substantial wealth that wasn't a total ass, and didn't act like the world was his candy store. most men that are able to financially 'take care' of you try to belittle your intelligence, just because they feel like you're desperate, so watch how you come across.
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