HOW TO MAKE A DATE OVER THE PHONE
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09/02/10 10:40
Victoria Rivera |
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So you've decided to spend time with me, but now what? Your first call can be nerve-wracking, and you don't want to creep me out! Follow the steps below to make things easier on me and yourself.
*PREPARING TO CALL* 1 Be as calm as you can, and try to be yourself. I am a professional, and will not judge you for having normal human emotions like anxiety. Remember, I am human, too. 2 Review the laws in your area and make sure you aren't breaking any. 3 Read my ad, website and any additional information I had provided. It's there for a reason, and reading it can save me and you from uncomfortable situation or rejections if we are not on the same page. 4 Make sure you know my phone number AND my name. Calling me and asking "which one are you again" will not impress me. 5 Check my availability before calling. i will not be happy to speak to you at 4am. 6 Consider your reasons for calling me. Do you want a romantic relationship? Do you expect to be allowed to hurt me or treat me like a blowup doll? Do you just want to talk dirty on the phone? Are you trying to get caught and make your wife jealous? I will not tolerate any of this behaviour. *MAKING THE CALL* 1 Take a deep breath, smile, think of something nice about yourself, and dial. Remember that I wont answer a blocked number. 2 When I answer, say calmly and confidently "hi, my name is (whatever). Is this (whoever)?" , keep smiling. 3 Tell me you saw my ad, and where and that you'd like to talk about making an appointment. 4 Ask me about anything you aren't clear on, but don't make me repeat every bit of information on my website. I have limited time and expects you to be able to read. 5 When asking about possible activities, avoid vague code words. Your idea of a particular style of encounter may be different from mine. Instead, ask specifically if I enjoy the activities you want to try, or ask if there's anything I dont want to do. Don't try to argue about my answer, or bribe me to change my mind. 6 Ask me if I am free at the particular time you want to get together. Don't make me choose when- I have no idea what your schedule is like. If I can accommodate you, I will. If not, I will suggest the closest time that works for the both of us. 7 Be sure to give me your full name, address and phone number or hotel room number. I will want to verify them to make sure it is not a prank call and that I can let someone know where I am. If you want to meet me at my place, Just be patient. 8 You will probably have to call one more time to let me know you are close and ready to come see me. Or, if I am meeting you at your place, I will call you. 9 Remember that I invest time and money in getting ready, driver and/or security fees, and reserving my time for you. If your appointment is still several hours away, and you change your mind, call and cancel. Explain your reason politely. If you are at my door or just minutes away, tell me politely that you've changed your mind, and pay for the first half hour or my driver's fee Don't hurt my feelings or stiff me, unless you'd like being treated that way at your job. 10 Have fun, be a gentleman, and be safe! 
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09/11/10 10:34
squirtingnymph |
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I LOVE IT YOU DESERVE A VOTE LUV! You are a great help to new comers like me. Thank you so much! I could certainly use this as a guide
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10/14/10 00:35
SerenaSinful |
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I agree. Someone needs to post this all over backpage, eros, OAD, etc., etc.
-------------------- Keeping a lower profile these days, but far from retired :)
Check out my ad & send me an email if you'd like to play! Kisses, Serena |
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10/16/10 05:08
David |
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Sure, great post but the believe that one client will follow 6 steps is doubtful.
I believe it goes into the personality of a person but also his/her experience. The first time they are nervous and it might go all over. the more experience the more settled the conversation becomes. Maybe, it also has to do something with education? I prefer to avoid talking directly. The many questions are confusing and often to not lead to anything. E mail or one of the other mobile communication might be easier. and in general, I let them speak... But the idea is fantastic. One would wish that people can follow 6 steps...lol |
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