Most Hobbiests Are Not Happy People

I met a girl who was apparently a very professional and experienced provider She told me that the men she met were generally not very happy people. This girl was very intelligent with multiple degrees, very popular as an escort, in high demand, and apparently charged very high prices. She lived in Southeast Asia and traveled the area as well as the U.S. rather frequently. The motives for her clients varied as I am sure they do for all providers, but she was hard pressed to describe many of her clients as solid, grounded characters. Most had some very disturbing event or perspective of their lives that made them relatively unhappy and were looking to her for some relief from their "pain" (that's my word, not hers).

To be clear, I am not making this out to be a bad thing or to paint hobbyists in a bad light. I am curious about how they are viewed by the providers. Honestly, I don't think that hobbyists are objective enough to address this, so I ask the providers. Do you agree with her? As a group (I'm hoping with some exceptions) are hobbiest generally unhappy or ungrounded people? And does this make your challenges as a provider more difficult, or easier?

Well... I'd not say that all my clients are unhappy etc... Some of them are! And those ladies love to drink a lot.. They're simply looking for a listener to their what-happened-with-me tales.... I have always considered it my duty to soothe and support such ladies, not as an escort but as a human being... One thing is true that 99% of clients are 'sexually' dissatisfied and that's why they hire me. If they wanted only a listener, then I'd be out of business...

That's how I have experienced it, so far. I guess, we'll receive different replies from female escorts and it'd be interesting to know about it... :)

How do you define unhappy? What is unhappy, frustrated, shy, cultural belief, ego, pride, moral upbringing, etchics, guilt and more....?

BECAUSE I TAKE MONEY FOR SEXUAL SERVICE

1. To some men I am: a whore. ugly. dirty. disgrace to women. a man hater. a gold digger.
1a. To some of these it is ONLY because of money and if I were to sex them without ever meeting them before I am great. To some but less all sex is dirty without a relationship.

2. To other men I am: an angel, beautiful, a chance of a life time, a chance to relax, independent.
2a. Some a well adjusted and just want to relax with a girl they find sexy and beautiful.
Some are lonely.
Some want to experiment with some thing different in they life.
Some have caught wife cheating and think this how to pay her back.

Unfortunately in this business and for many different reasons people tend to over think than just be honest.
Some men will make up stories thinking it is what you want to hear.
Some men will make promises he would love to but knows he cannot keep.
Some girls will tell stories of sadness or no money to make men feel guilty to give or give more.

In the end I cannot decide what makes you happy. I can only hope to make you happier when you leave me. Happiness comes from within and ultimately only real if it come from yourself.

So, the two of you think there may be something unhappy or unsatisfied in your clients, but not necessarily unhappy people...

I meet alot of travelling business men who are too busy for a relationship and are just feeling lonely. So I don't think they are "unhappy" but more on the side of lonesome for company.

It probably varies provider to provider and probably what area you are in.

I am a mature, down to earth bbw, so maybe I just attract lonely men too busy for a real relationship.

Perhaps this is not a widely viewed perspective by escorts. Perhaps she was just tired of it, fed up, or both.

I, really, have a hard time believing that hobbyists are unhappy people. Why in the world would I travel some place to see a lady if I was unhappy. Unhappy could also mean depressed. Many people suffer from depression on a daily basis that doesn't mean they're unhappy it means they suffer from a mental illness, one which I am very familiar with, but it doesn't mean I'm unhappy. Content and grateful would be the words I use to describe my self but unhappy? No way.
Not being trained as a psychologist or psycharitrist I am not qualified to make the determination if some one is happy or not and neither is any one else who is not trained.

I agree, Paulh50.

Kitty, I don't find U or any of the honest escorts as being 'whores, dirty, or filthy'. I C U providing a great service for men wanting companionship (this includes friendship & for men that're lonely). I C U or any lady as an equal partner to B treated w/respect & honesty...I'd wanna B treated as U'd wanna B treated!

Hobbyists are unhappy people??? I cant agree Dear sorry. 1st of all why was I able to say that? Please understand that we may have different clients, but most of my clients seem to be happy people. We enjoy ourselves in and out of bed. I find our profession as somewhat therapeutic to most men. We save marriages, lives etc. Of course I am saying this because of my experience not because I have some illusion of some sort. The Love for sex does not mean that one is unhappy...

Well, perhaps it was this provider who is the unhappy one, seeing that reflected in her clients through prejudicial eyes.