Forum - When asked what services are provided...

Ok, I've been working as an escort for about 4 months and one of the most common questions I'm asked when a guy contacts me is "What services do you provide?" and "are there any limitations?"

I always list that I'm a GFE and services include DFK, DATY, MSOG, etc etc in my ad. Is there some other kind of answer to these questions that the client is looking for?

Franceska, in Canada you are free to talk explicitly about services so long as you do not communicate in a public place. A hotel room or residence is private. So is a telephone and email if you are in a private place. Note that an automobile is NOT private! I discuss this in my article about Escorting and Canadian Law.

I answer client questions about services and clearly set their expectations. I have learned not to describe or list my services. Rather I ask them what they specifically want and then simply say 'Yes I do that' or 'No I don't'. This saves a lot of time, and shortcuts the talkers that try to get you to talk dirty so that they can jerk off.

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Yes, I read that article, Dominixe, and I must say - many many thanks for putting that together! You've actually been a really good resource for me the last 4 months!

Also, thanks for the answer. That WILL cut down my response times a lot!

You're very welcome. And thank-you for asking the question and participating in the discussion. Hope to see you around!

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I take it from the other side. I ask back for the fantasy. That is ultimately what the customer is looking for I would say. Asking that gives the opportunity to know their fantasy. then you decide if you can do that or not. Plus, he/she might already get excited when talking as you can go into that topic.

Legal, I have no idea how it works out there...

Good luck

Sorry to say that in the good old USA you must play cat and mouse. No answer to that question other than GFE is safe and even that can get you in trouble. I find that by saying "I am an affectionate very kissable openminded mature lady and do expect you to be kissable and affectionate too" works for me. When I arrive my tongue is in his mouth and no need to talk from there! It works for me.

Canada has some great ideas on consenting adult laws and wish the states would get with the time. Even on my website,e-mail or phone conversations I must bite my tongue and if any personal questions are asked just hang up. How rude of me but this is a safety issue.

Kisses Haley

sounds very tough!
Good luck,!

Do you mean they tap all private talks? Or you mean a cop-hobbyist or an informer?

Haley means that it is illegal to engage in any discussion of sexual commerce (sex for money) in the US. So you can talk about sex or about money but never together in public or private. An escort does not necessarily know if she is talking to a law enforcement officer or to a hobbyist. If she is talking to LE posing as a hobbyist, then it would be a "sting" operation and LE would undoubtedly be audio and or video taping the conversation for evidence.

If a sting is in operation, then it means that LE has been alerted to possible illegal activity by their own monitoring (of Craigslist or escort review sites), complaints or informants (crusading do-gooders, competitors and others). LE can tape private conversations if they can obtain a warrant by giving probable cause.

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An elegant courtesan among Calgary escorts, providing vip executive escort companionship to business travelers. Experience elite GFE, fetish, and domination services from the best of Calgary escorts.

So, I always thought US sucks! Hom much bigotery and hipocrysy could one country absorb? I think a lot - if anybody could consider Sarah Palin as vice-president.

i would do the same just ask them what they would like. i find it is the best thing since it saves you times