Forum - How to deal with No Shows

When should it be allowed to post mens numbers and when shouldn't it?

I did post this in my group today and did show the number as it made me so mad, but in this case the number will get me no where. No shows never really bothered me before cause I basically stay home all the time but when it interferes in others I care about then I feel differently and feel it unjust. I will just copy and paste what I put in my group and then remove the number. I forgot to mention below that this man when asked if he had been here before said he had.

As you all know I am late in my pregnancy and I also had my two older
sons home from school today. Well this asshat when he called I
informed him that my boys were home but told him I could send my boys
out so told him to be sure to show because I did not want to send them
out for nothing. This was to be only a half hr. session. So, they
would not have been out for long. I figured that men would be more
respectful of this fact. My eldest son is ticked off now because he
says that he had to babysit for nothing and lol says that this guy
owes him for babysitting too. :p

Well, let this be a lesson for no shows and I hope this asshat is in
this group because here is his number. (416) 848- now when I
called this number it says please enter your authorization code now so
you cannot get through. Oh, if I could get through, grrrrrr But be
my guest in alerting other girls that you wish not to have occupied in
time or having to drive out to meet this guy and paying gas expenses
for nothing. Like myself I paid my boys money to go to a local place
to eat out to occupy thier time while I was selling perfume. Just what
I tell em I am doing.


This guy obviously has no respect for children or pregnant women or
anyone so I do not care if I post this here as I figure that only
disrespectful people would mind and I am also going to post this to
another board I know of that is only a group of sp's for alerts and
warning because when it comes to my kids it makes my blood boil.


Meanwhile obviously my boys health today was not thier best and is
obviously why they were home from school, but I figured a little fresh
air would not harm them.

I feel this man needs a good kick in the behind.

I may add generally I am against posting numbers because men can be married etc... and just may be inconsiderate in calling back to say sorry I cannot make it or lose their nerve to show as it may be a first time for them. But, in the case outlined above I feel it more of a warning for other girls to avoid this one. Opinions please.

I feel ya' Jade4u....
I won't post this guys real name or his number but I have added an additional donation for when he calls me again....
I will share my story about "Fred"...
"Fred" sent me several emails and we talked on the phone several times...
We were supposed to meet last week.....
I called his listed reference and the provider gave him the thumbs up....during our phone chats he was all excited about meeting me for the very first time, as he had been trying to set up an appointment for a long time...anyway....
I had the hotel name and address but not "Fred's" room number....
Once I got to the location...I started calling him...
He let it go to voice mail...then he turned his phone off completely...
I then paged him and he never answered that either....
I was flabbergasted as to what happened to "Fred", his reference checked out, he was (on the phone) the perfect gentleman....but something happened to that man that night, and we never had that date, and I have not heard from him since that night....no emails, no calls from him...and I have not tried calling/emailing him...
Who knows what men think at the last minute, or even when they set the appointment and go through all the verifying processes and reference checks, then do a No Call, No Show....
This is one of those times when one must go 'WTF'...
Just wanted to share one of my recent stories so you will know that you are not alone girl....it happens to the best of us...

Keep checking those references and keep watching your backs....a girl can't be too careful, especially in our line of 'work'...
Delicious

We are half-way through the client blacklist module that will allow to share information on bad clients. I expect it to be released in about a week. You will be able to list the phone numbers and other contact details along with the incident details. Escort names will optionally stay hidden to save you from potential troubles. Access to blacklist module will be granted to escorts only. Initially to all of them and restricted to active site members only after a while.
So prepare all your bad client details, you will have a chance to get back at them in an ethical way ;)

I also add an additional donation for NCNS's if they happen to rebook with me....That way, I figure it will cut down on that problem....

This is a great topic and one that has really been pissing me off lately too.
I had two of these last week and one jerk that wanted to pay with a credit card when he knows it's strictly cash.

Hello everyone..I'm siska from far away in Indonesia/bali.
I have concerns about noshow up clients and it really pisses us off.
I think at one time or another, all girls in this line of business will experience it.

We have sacrificed our time and also arrange special time, going thru traffice etc to meet upthe client, then he doesnt show up..that is just unfair and its like cheating us.

It happened to me and it will happen to you..so what i did was i wrote in this forum..somewhere here, warning the other girls to beware of this client and i revealed his name (nickname i guess) and also his phone number.
This is just how such asshat men must be treated so that they will know the word RESPECT..

I would like to suggest, that we put up a forum and put up the clients name and phone numbers as well as email address..so that we can all know who such clients are. Its will be a just thing to do..
Of course we will ot put up their name etc if at least the clients cancells but gave a good reason behind it.

I think its only fair..any support form my friend shere..??

thank you and kisses ..wish all the best.

Well I am all for it. They should give us some time and call back and cancel if they cannot make it. I understand if they run into a problem and cannot make it. That can happen to anyone on occasion, but to leave us wondering and not answering the calls if they are avoiding later on because they do not show etc... is just rude as we can make other arrangements etc... Even if they just called and said sorry I am getting cold feet here and appologize I could be forgiving.

But then again I have had men call back at different times and appologize for a previous time and say just that. Then the next time they show. But, granted that is rare it is possible some get cold feet and then feel shy to call back again. It is those small amount of occasions that leave me wondering. But, if you explain to them that you are putting yourself out as well as others and they still do it that is just rude.

Maybe if we have thier pm or e mail or number etc... and they refuse to answer after a day or so to explain then we should go for it. But, give them a small redemption time. I also recall one that got stuck in a situation of a wife returning home early and could not get out or answer calls and had to turn off the cell who later e mailed the next day to appoligize. Maybe they should be given a day or two???

I'll go with giving them two (2) days AFTER the NCNS before we are allowed to release the info we have to other providers in a SPECIAL forum just for that sort of thing.......

Kisses