"You Get What You Pay For"
I have a confession to make. I find it difficult accepting money for my time, as it may imply that am a whore, gold digger, or any other degrading names out there. However, I heard someone ask, "how many wives or girlfriends have traded sexual favors for monetary exchange?". Initially, when I began my escort career I was anxious (and still anxious) with new clients during the "meet and greet" phase and collected my fee towards the end of a session; which felt totally awkward. How do I ask for money after having a moment of passion?
My apprehension with collecting this fee for my time allowed me to be cheated. Briefly, here's what happened, I secured an incall location at a hotel that cost $125, then placed my ad and waited for potential bookings. After several calls I agreed to meet with a young gentleman at a restaurant near my incall location; which was his idea to break the ice. Once I got there, he was sitting at the bar and was somewhat tipsy. I was very uncomfortable with his behavior. My mind was screaming RUN NOW! GET OUT OF THIS SITUATION! and DON'T WASTE ANYMORE TIME! But I stayed and he disrespected my request for discretion by discussing our arrangement loudly were others in the restaurant could hear. He then tried to sell me an idea on a business scheme. I spent over an hour with him at this bar and refused food or drinks because he made me sick to my stomach. Eventually, I finally got the courage to leave gracefully and went back to my incall location. I felt so out of my league and knew I was embarking on a career with many risks; not only safety and health wise.
I spoke with another potential client after getting back to my incall location. But this time I wasn't in the mood to leave and do a "meet and greet" as that would be a waste of time that evening. The day was quickly ending and I was negative $125. Anyway, he seemed nice and honest. Yes I admit I can be too naïve because how does one "seem nice and honest". Well he meet me at the incall but he wasted 20 minutes driving around, stating he was worried of a set up. He knock on the door, I was worried too, not knowing if he was LE. He asked if the room was attached to another and I was reassuring him that I was legitimate. I tried inviting humor to the situation but he was close to paranoia or so I thought. I found myself feeling sorry for this "new" hobbyist because I was a "newbie" myself.
Once he realized that I was a totally independent escort he started to relax. I massaged and stroked him and kissed his neck wanting to deliver an ultimate GFE. Then he tells me he has to go to the ATM because he was afraid to have money if in fact this was a set up. My intuition was warning me that he was playing games. But I didn't want to ruin his experience by over-reacting. And yes, like an idiot I said don't worry you can go to the ATM after the session. Needless to say, he got the ultimate GFE and left without paying.
I called these newbie experiences growing pains. Unfortunately, these experiences makes it difficult to offer an incall option. I feel lucky that I wasn't injured because these people lacked integrity. Thankfully, these negative experiences don't out number the positive ones. Luckily, I've had clients insist on paying the fee first to get the business aspect out the way so that we could concentrate on making each other feel amazing. They taught me to make it a rule to require the fee before the service; which makes it much easier.
Lately, it seems the issue on the table is how much to charge. Recently, a potential client called to book and tried negotiating my fee. He stated that my fee was too expensive. As you know by now, I am uncomfortable discussing money for my services and hate the idea of negotiating. Well there are several factors as to why my fee is slightly more than the going rate among fellow escorts my area. And the main factor is that I only do this part-time so that I am able to deliver an exceptional session to my client. I don't offer quickie sessions because they are impersonal and takes away from the ultimate Nurse Teri experience. Having said all of that, the saying that you get what you pay for echos truly.
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General Category: Escort Business
Current mood: horny
Added on: 07/05/08 01:30
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