Escort Etiquette...Please read if you are not familiar with the "process"
In order to enjoy the services of any Escort you need to
learn how to discuss their services correctly.
1. Escorts DO NOT sell sex. (While some people often confuse Escorts and Prostitutes the big difference is simple. Escorts sell their time, not sexual acts. What happens during the time spent with an Escort is up to two or more consenting adults who possess likes and interests. It’s that simple.)
2. Because of what was mentioned in one (1.) you will discover Escorts DO NOT talk to ‘Newbie’ clients about sex between yourself and themselves at all, in any form or manner. The reason is as mentioned above. They are selling their time, not “acts”. To avoid delays in communicating with an Escort keep the discussion light and fun. Mentioning “acts” might get your mail ignored completely and nobody has any fun if that happens.
3. This is a biggy! NEVER associate a sex act with a fee or rate $$. The only people on the planet who attempt to associate sex with a fee when communicating with an Escort work for Police departments or are soliciting hookers. Making this fee/act association will scare an Escort away and once again everybody loses.
4. When first contacting an Escort, usually via E-Mail, ALWAYS supply a phone number and as much information you feel comfortable providing; including your first name, your age, your height, your weight, a general location, etc. Escorts are going to learn all of this information anyway so why not get started on the right foot, plus it makes the whole process run a lot smoother and faster. Something to avoid is sending E-mail with lewd, crude wishes and wants. These usually get ignored and it halts
communication.
5. Always pay the agreed upon fees/monies up front. NEVER make the
Escort ask for money. They are providing a service after all.
6. When you first meet up with your Escort be sure to leave the agreed monies/fees on the dresser, bed, coffee table, etc. always in plain view and expect the Escort to count it (wouldn’t you if your positions were reversed?). Dont mention the payment and dont try to hand it directly to the escort. Cash is my only acceptable form of payment.
7. Have your ID available for the Escort to inspect if requested. If you don’t trust your Escort enough to see your ID then you need to look elsewhere for companionship. In the event you are staying at a hotel EXPECT the Escort to call the front desk to confirm you are a registered guest and in the room number you provided before they ever show up. This will require you providing our full name. This is for safety reasons.
8. Expect the Escort to have told a Trusted Friend where they were
going, for how long and with whom including details. Escorts have friends too and to stay safe they keep the most trusted well, well informed.
9. If after meeting your Escort you discover you share the same sexual interests and are attracted to one another then it is up to you to ALWAYS MAKE FIRST PHYSICAL CONTACT!! (I stress that as it’s very important.) The Escort will not and cannot touch you until you make the first move. This is because of vice laws. Once you have introduced the first physical, sexual contact then “it’s on” and you’re going to have a great time. Failing to make first physical/sexual contact with your Escort means you will stay untouched for the allotted time and the Escort will leave with their fee when it’s time to go.
10. If your first meeting with your Escort is in a hotel room EXPECT the Escort to go immediately to the bathroom to make sure there are no additional “guests”. Do not be alarmed by this. Sometimes clients surprise Escorts by bringing a friend or friends along without warning. Never a good idea!! This can annoy or even scare your Escort and will destroy the mood.
11. Only offer beverages to your Escort which are sealed in bottles or cans. You could also expect your Escort to supply their own beverages for their own use. No Escort wants to get dosed with
any kind of drug, or have to worry about it, so to avoid this it’s a great idea to follow the sealed bottle/can rule. If an Escort does accept a beverage from you EXPECT them to drink it fast or not to put the container down until it’s finished due to the above reasons. Once trust is established or you’re a repeat client this will not be such an issue.
12. Your Escort will not bring condoms, lube, toys or any item of sexual nature as by law they cannot. You should always have these items handy (as you normally would).
13. This one is easy and common sense. DO NOT treat the Escort like an item/object. They are human beings, just like you and me, making their time available to you as eye candy on your arm, a dinner guest, a travel companion, a drinking buddy or what have you. Treat your Escort as you would have someone treat you anyou’re likely to make a life long friend and have a hell of a lot more fun. The only time this doesn’t apply is in role playing exercises providing it’s consensual.
14. DO NOT EXPECT the Escort to keep track of time. If you go over
your paid time EXPECT TO BE PREPARED to pay additional monies/fees. Escorts are a service industry like any other and their time, like your time, is valuable. If you adhere to this you wont have to worry about "clock watchers."
15. EXPECT your Escort to treat you professionally. They see you as a client and soon to be friend. They do not view you as their boyfriend/girlfriend . If you are looking for a relationship/romance then stick with a girlfriend/boyfriend and leave the Escorts to their ‘friends’ who enjoy their services.
16. Always tip your Escort, even if it’s a minor amount. Everyone likes to be told they are doing a great job, if even $10.00, makes a world of difference.
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General Category: Escort Business
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Added on: 10/26/07 10:39
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